Have you ever been put on waiting?? Just like thath she/he tels you that she/he needs time to think about everything.... i know you have,cause there is no such person that hasn't pass that period.... being passive or active in " this thing".

It is pretty ugly feeling to wait and to live knowing anything...

But have you ever asked yourself what is she thinking about,,or he??

Here is one thing that you should know: Even that person that putted you on wait doesn't know the answer...

Unfortunatelly it's like that in 99% of cases! Than you ask your self why does she/he need that time????!!!!!

Well, the answer is simple she/he want's to see what it would be living without you,,,and what you feel!!! Thats right,this period is for testing your feelings and not hers/his! So what you need to do in this moment is to stay cool, not to be borring and unpatient!! Remember we all like to manipulate with someone,and when we see that we can manipulate with someone, we use that chance...and ussually with overreacting!!! So do not let anyone to manipulate with you, even though you love that person! If you lett that to your loving person she may mix all of her feelings,I want say that that is the sign that she/he doesn't loves you, but the fact that she/he can manipulate with you, will bring her in the wrong direction that shows you exectly that,that she/he doesn't loves you....it's a little bit mixed but i hope you will understand!!

So the best way to get out of the crisis is to stay cool and wait,,I know its hard and every day you wait more it will be harder!!!

But you need to stay focused on your target..on the meaning of your relationship,,esspecially if you love your partner,,you need to have in mind that this coolnes is for a good of your relationship, and that will bring you a large use!!

So i wish you all best, and one more thing.... You probably asked yourself but what if she/he doesn't come back to me, because of my coolnes???! Well if she/he loves you and care about you little more, than she/he will come back for sure, if not... well there can't be love,and you should not to be sorry.... Destiny will bring you someone else that will know how to love you and show you his/hers feelings!!!

So good luck!!! ;D

How to know what she thinks,and what she feels??? Let me help you, a little, here are some signs that will lead you:

1. Willingness to sacrifice
If a woman loves you she has the willingness to sacrifice. There are things that people will not do for anyone but the people that they love. Look for things that differentiate how your woman treats you and how she treats other people in her life. Are you one of the priorities? Do you come first before her friends? Does she do things for you that she would not do for other people? These are keys on how special you really are to her? Has she sacrificed some things just to be with you? These are the things that indicate just how special you are to her.

2. Worry-wart
Some women may not say much but they worry for the safety of the people they love. This is one way to know if a woman loves you. When what you do affects them in some way, this means that you matter in their lives. This is one of the most obvious signs of love in a person because you care enough to worry for their safety. You can tell if a woman loves you if she worries for your safety.

3. Jealousy
Although jealousy may not necessarily be a good thing when you think about it, a hint of it is a sign that a person is into you. There is jealousy if a woman loves you. A dose of jealousy is actually healthy to a relationship as it validates feelings and reassures the partner that the other is afraid of losing you to someone else. Of course too much of it can also be detrimental. Learn to balance and solve jealousy issues immediately.

But still, as many heads that is the number of opinions,,,it may not work on some, just on 99,99 percent of them, hope yours wife isn't in theese 00,01 percents! ;D

You gott to know a few things about men's feelings, and how to read them,,,so i hope this will be interesting to you:

Body language is exactly what it sounds like; the language your body speaks. According to Wikipedia, body language a term used to refer to the movements your body makes, intentional and unintentional, instead of verbal communication to show your feeling. Most of the movements our bodies make are based on reflexes and impulses. These movements are different for each and every individual. But, you can make an educated guess and know how to read men's body language to know if he's interested in you.

1) His Face
This is the most important part of the body. Usually, the face is the first to show emotions than any other part of you. If a guy is interested in you, in most cases, he'll be nervous and shy. These are the emotions his body will convey and you can learn on how to interpret his emotions by just watching his face.
First, is he facing you directly? If he is, then he's assured and confident in talking to you. In that case, if he's interested in you, he's pretty sure that he can woo you. If he's looking somewhere else when talking to you, that can be translated in several ways.
He could be really nervous and that means he lacks self-confidence in talking to you. That shows he's interested in you. Or, he could be insincere in his intentions. No eye contact in a conversation can denote that he is lying, especially if his whole face is looking elsewhere.
A man interested in you will have his whole body facing yours during conversation. If he's confident, then he'll be making eye contact and will watch your mouth to listen carefully to the words you're saying. If he's not self-assured, he'll be looking away when you speak to him, but will not change his position. That means he's interested but unsure on how to start his attempts.

2) His Hands
Sometimes, guys can really keep an expressionless face. So, checking his face for emotions can't work here. So, how to read men's body language to know if he's interested in you? His face can't give you clues; so move on to the next best thing - his hands.
Hands are a great indicator of how we feel about something or somebody. If you keep checking your watch and tapping your finger; that means you're bored. If you keep touching you face, especially your nose; then you're lying. If you stroke your chin, you're passing judgment. In short, a man's hands can tell you a lot of things.
Too find out if a man is attracted to you, try talking to him and observe his hands. Ask him certain questions to see if his hands will correlate with his words. If he's touching his face when he's talking to you, he might be lying or not speaking the whole truth. If he keeps scratching his head and hair, it means he's feeling doubt over his answers to your questions. If he keeps tugging at his collar or wiping his sweaty hands on his clothes, he is uncomfortable talking to you.

3) His Posture
His stance is the easiest way in knowing how to read men's body language to know if he is interested in you. If he got his hands on his hips, he feels superior to you. You wouldn't want a guy like that, even if he's interested in you. If his shoulders are slouched and sluggish, then he has low self-esteem.
The prime example of one's body expressing one's feelings is if he's leaning towards you. That means he has a certain inclination towards you and wants to get intimate. If he is leaning away, then you have got the wrong man.
As said before, everyone's body has different ways to express themselves. You cannot take for granted that a particular action shows a specific feeling. You just have to know his character well and be patient.

Hope you gonna cacth someone...by the help of this! ;D

What is love??? Try to find out:

The four letter word is the most widely used and I might also say abused in the world today. It flows so effortlessly through the lips of men and women. It is thrown so carelessly even where it is not necessary. Sometimes it makes me think there is no definite definition of this word. It depends on the context in which the word has been used. The definition of love is at a persons discretion. But what is love? It is subject to debate because there are many types of love. It depends with the perspective from which you are looking at it. Maybe you are a Christian and what has been drummed into you is agape love from the gospels. What about the love that you feel or have towards a sibling? I hope you are also not forgetting the so called love that is said to bring a man and a woman together.
When a man sees a woman for the first time, and he is attracted to that woman it is said it is love at first sight. But the better phrase to use would be it was lust at first sight. This is the most correct assessment especially of such a scenario. The male species in a human being is still an animal and is always looking for potential females to mate with. It is sex that attracts a man to woman but not love. what is love? Love means something different to man. To him having sex with a woman is paramount and it does not mean that he loves that woman. This is the reason why a man is genetically polygamous. There is nothing like love, it is the power of the loin that is attractive. How else does a man manage to have several wives and lovers hanging at the fringes?
Love is an illusion, it is a creation of the mind. What makes us believe there is love is simply because we do not want to change the status quo. It is a tradition passed from generation to generation and who are we to break these tradition? We were brought up believing in the concept of love. We grew up in a society where the word love was being thrown right, left and center with so much abandon. It is entrenched in our minds that yes, there is love. But have you ever sat down and pondered about is? Have you ever asked yourself what is love? And do you believe in it? Do not start biting your finger nails or scratching your head over the issue, it might go bald it it is not already bald.
The so called love that is so much hyped up is only a temporarily infatuation. People keep on falling in and out of "love". People fall out because infatuation is a temporary feeling and once it is worn out everything is over between the two of you. It must be understood that no love was involved. There is a very big misconception of the true meaning of love. Love is used as an escape goat so that people can indulge in their fantasies. What is love? Love is kindness stretched over a long period of time. It is the best way to put it.

I wan't say that you have to accept this, but it may help you to figer it out!

You got to love your woman, without love you are weak as paper.... so love her, this will help you:

- "It's All About The Timing". Timing is the most important deciding factor when it comes to confessing your feelings to a woman. If you tell a girl that you love her in a wrong time, you could ruin your chances forever. Do not make this mistake!

- "Send Non-verbal Hints". What most men do not know is that women can pick up hints and non-verbal ques very easily - she will be able to sense that you have got feelings for her even without you telling her. You see, once you already indicated your interest through body language it becomes very easy to tell her verbally - since she has already knew it.

And this will help you too:

- Stay Friends Too!
So many of our readers have problems keeping friendships alive while romantically involved with the man they love. He should be your best friend, and he should feel the same way about you. Keeping friendship, transparency and trust alive in a relationship is key to emotional attachment! This is probably the central component to relationships that endure.
- Laugh, A LOT!
Even at yourself! The truth is, people who laugh together have a bond that transcends the ordinary. Plus laughter makes you live longer, too! (which means you'll both be around a lot longer to enjoy each other to boot!

Now..have you ever felt that it is time for more privacy with your wife or girlfriend???

Use this tips,and don't forget it is not everything in thoose stuffs that someone else has done,,,and that you are copiing now,you have to bring your self in thoose things,to bring your feelings in,,because that is the thing that makes that moment so special. So here you go:

1. Take her on a dinner. Pick up some romantic restaurant..or something unussuall, but don't let your look of her, because that will make her feel special, and your idea has to work!

2. When you make love,light up some candels, and make them as many as that number will have some meaning in your rellationship,and after tell her... But don't make love as you ussually do, make some inovations....

3. Here are some inovations:

- kiss her for a long time,,and every little tell her what she means to you;

- kiss her all over her body,and watch what she likes the most;

- be so genntle as you're gonna break her if don't be so gennnntle, this is the most important, and she will see that you like her much;

- let her to take you inside of her,,,

I hope something will have effect...;D

Some of them say that a..love needs to be aproved..and noone knows how exectly.

Well, that is tho poent of everything,,,anyone who loves needs to find a way to aprove his/her love to their partners..

But, it isn not always diferent,some may show love on many standard ways and their partners will bealive it! For example here are some ways you can use....:

1. Be more Affectionate with your wife
Hold your wife's hand while watching TV, taking a walk, or driving in the car. Massage her back or feet without asking for anything in return. Your wife likes to be touched and fussed over occasionally, know when that time is by being attune to your wife's feelings, and paying special attention to your wife on those days.

2. Surprise your wife with something totally unexpected
Instead of golfing with your buddies on Saturday, take your wife to a romantic outside lunch if it is summer or fireplace lunch in the winter. Then take her to a romantic comedy matinee movie. If you have the money to spend, book a hotel room for the night with a Jacuzzi and enjoy the night together! Your wife will love all this.
Make her a homemade all-occasion card on the computer telling her how important she is to you in your life. Make her feel special. Get creative, draw her a picture, and spend time on creating this card, she will love it that you took the time to make her a card rather than simply buying one from the store. It is the simple things in life that mean the most.

3.Make her a homemade all-occasion card on the computer telling her how important she is to you in your life. Make her feel special. Get creative, draw her a picture, and spend time on creating this card, she will love it that you took the time to make her a card rather than simply buying one from the store. It is the simple things in life that mean the most.

It may look silly,,but it works,and it will have a loto of efect,,try it,you don't have anything to lose....

it really doesn't mather if you are alone,or you have someone,,deep down you are inloved,even if you don't know this yet,,there is a secret barried in your soul,in your heart, and mind.... we do not know about it,at the time when you don't have someone..but when you find someone she comes out like a snike,crawling on every inch of your body....

BUt the fact is that ... you are probably asking what if there is someone that came to my life,and not that person that i love know,would i love that other person as same as this now????

The answer,,is,,, no! why?? Well there is something called destiny,,, and this love that you are wearing in you,,is working on the princip of, let me make comparation with the door and the key...so take one door for examp.and they are standing right there in front of you ( let us take that the doors are your love that is standing in side of you,,or just a way to your love if it's easier for you),,and you have let's say a houndreads of keys( wich are persons)...so you are trying to open them,one by one,,,and on the end none of them fits!!!??? they have tried and didn't made.... as you have wen't out and been with 10, 50, or 100 women,and none of them have'nt been the right one,none of them made you feel something special... so the love is there standing still, just like the doors! sodoor are standing, and there is an other person in front of them,,and even if you have had a houndreads and thousands of keys,,,now that person has only one.........

she puts it inside the door,and she hasn't even thurned it on any side....the doors haven't openned,,,no...they crashed down!!! you are probably asking why is that,i mean why crashed why didnt they just opened....i mean the key was the right one...but..love couldn't wait anymore..cause she knew that it was the right one,,she didn't had to turn the key. And the love hadn't patiente any more,cause there where a thousands of keys,and when they looked the right one they simply crashed, they have forgot all of the rools....

Now, have you ever asked your self, when you once had a right love, why is none other the same,or just near as goog as that right one.... ??? Well it's because door have been brooken,remember!?

Here is a few things what other think about love:

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True Love is a profound feeling of strong attraction or affection. Love is the route to authentic happiness. George Sand beautifully expressed that, “there is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.” Many consider love to be blind, as love sees no boundaries of caste, creed, age, sex or religion. It is sacred and unselfish. However, Will Moss is of the opinion that “Love is not blind - It sees more and not less, but because it sees more it is willing to see less.”
Love has been interestingly compared to a mountain, by Daniel Monroe Tuttle, which is hard to climb, but once you get to the top, the view is beautiful and brings authentic happiness to our hearts. Love is the true key to authentic happiness. Love is a language the dumb can speak, a wonderful sight that the blind can see and a harmonious song that the deaf can hear. It is the greatest joy in the world that cannot be compared to the most expensive gems or jewels. Love is priceless and free. Love can bring authentic happiness and a smile to the most hard hearted people. There is nothing or no one in life that love cannot change.
Love is the symbol of optimism, sanguinity and authentic happiness. Love brings a ray of hope to the people who have lost everything in life. It helps us build our confidence when we are down in the dumps, and have faced tremendous failures. It helps us reach or achieve our goal in life or in our career by boosting our poise. Love helps us get rid of all the negative energy around us and look at life in a positive and optimistic way, through which we can achieve authentic happiness. Crystal Middlemas correctly believes that “Love, like a river, will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle.”
The Bible rightly expresses that love never fails. It always protects us, always brings a beam of hope, it always perseveres, always trusts and most importantly it never fails to lead us to authentic happiness.
The simplest way to achieve authentic happiness is by always being surrounded by people you love. When you are around your loved ones, it gives you a sense of belonging which can buffer you from stress. In addition to that carving out as much time as you can spend with people you value, gives you a support system for when your luck heads south.
Research at the University of Illinois, Unites States of America, has found that people who are consistently very happy have stronger romantic and social relationships than unhappy people. Your loved ones will always encourage you, give you the strength to fight against your failures, persuade and push you to reach your goals, and help solve all your troubles and problems. This proves how important it is to be around the people you love. This is an ideal route to authentic happiness."

there are some things i could agree about too!!!

today...all love has fall deep down,,without respect... everything is about sex

why is it so???? is there romance at all??? and i dont mean on candles when it's a sex time...i mean on more beautyfull things such as: writting songs,poems, doing some weard things for someone,,, making her to fell that she is the only one,,,and ofcourse it's got to be bothsided....

no???? it seams that those things have dissapeard?!?

You know,,,once,it was a midnight...and i was watching Tv,and one idea cross my mind....

i wanted to make the pancaces...yes at the midnight..but what is more crazy,is that about 00:30,i finished,and tooked a few of them and brought them on the other end of the city to my girlfriend.... she was literary fucked up....that is the romance and strenght of love....

have you ever felt that...the loving person is thinking about you when you are not together??? strange feeling,ha? well that is something that is called telepathy... i know that from science side isnt aproved,yet...but my opinion is that, it is very possible.... exam.have you ever got the message and thought oh thats my love...and appears to be truth...or exam.mom...or sister...

that happened to me many times.... that is the conectivity you have with the people that are close to you,.. ok mom,and sister, still you have the same blod, but what about the girlfriend...

that is unexplainable!

sorry, there is one world that can explain that moment..and it is called love!

there is no such a thing like love.... thees emotions,,,, hmmm... and there doesnt have to be sex...it is enough just to look the loving person,just to touch her, and smile with her..... yes,,, no sex...i had a love that last for 3 years and nine months without sex...and on the end,she left me, but not because of someone else,just because of the fact that she loved me to much,was jelious too,and couldnt stand the fact that i could cheat on her....

And i know that she loves me still, so do i her!!

There is one song that, by my opinion makes the best of a man...it reflects his fellings about love so good, that makes you dizy.....

"The world was on fire, no-one could save me but you It's strange what desire will make foolish people do I'd never dreamed that I'd need somebody like you And I'd never dreamed that I'd need somebody like you No I don't wanna fall in love this world is always gonna brake your heart No I don't wanna fall in love this world is always gonna brake your heart ..with you What a wicked game to play To make me feel this way What a wicked thing to do To let me dream of you What a wicked thing to say You never felt this way What a wicked thing you do To make me dream of you No I don't wanna fall in love this world is always gonna brake your heart No I don't wanna fall in love this world is always gonna brake your heart ..with you The world was on fire, no-one could save me but you It's strange what desire will make foolish people do No and I never dreamed that I'd love somebody like you I'll never dream that I lose somebody like you, no Now I wanna fall in love This world is always gonna brake your heart Now I wanna fall in lust This world is always gonna brake your heart ..with you Nobody loves no-one .......

offcourse it is the famous Chris Isak.....powerfull,no!?

love is something that comes with the strange felling of emotions....it is filled with electricit....a positiv substention that makes us do some weard things.... i had a love once... it was majestic felling to be with someone that takes your breath away in every minute spent with her.... when you find your self laing in her arms you are carefull about how much air are you breathing,caring to left some more for her.....

it is the felling that makes a man from you.... even now.... she is allways in my minds...!!!!